Every new year brings hope and zeal to stay happy in life, right?
But there are a few things which are most likely to make you sad or become a burden as you advance in a new year. So, in order to be happy in 2019, you should remove these negative things from your life.
And no, I am not talking about quitting smoking or drinking. Here are the real negative things that you should dump in 2018 to be happy in 2019-
1. That toxic relationship
If you are in a relationship, deep down you know if you are really happy or not. If you close your eyes and ask yourselves the same question, you will get the right answer. Just follow your heart and don’t be dependent on a relationship which is nothing but an addiction. Dump it and move on. You’ll be happier.
2. Friend who manipulates you
Stay away from that greedy friend who manipulates you to do his/her bidding. These kinds of people only believe in being selfish and getting their work done. Just block them out of your life and you will see how easy it will be to stay happy in 2019.
3. Judgemental friends
Almost all of us have one friend who is judgemental to the core. As a result, when you have a close connection with them, you too start getting affected by their behavior. Result? Your core nature gradually changes and you tend to lose yourself. Get rid of them for a happier life.
4. A dependent adult
Are you taking care of a grown-up? And I don’t mean healthwise. I am talking about being constantly there for the person in every big and small thing. Leave such friends, because they are just wasting your time and not giving you space to live yours.
5. The Narcissist
Ok, these are the worst ones. They always have a negative outlook towards life. And if you continue to live by their side, chances are you will become negative too. Your perception towards life will change and you will always have negative thoughts. I am sure you don’t want that.
6. The Instigator
These are the ones who spread the rumours and are not at all trustworthy. You can never share your secrets with them and they will always be in the go to spread a piece of news. The further they are from your life, the better are the chances for you to stay happy.
7. Attention-seeking person
When it comes to an attention-seeking friend, you know how irritating they can be. They will never agree on the right thing and always throw tantrums so that they constantly get the attention of people nearby. I don’t think anyone would like to be around such a person.
8. The ones who abandon you
You have a friend who always disappears when you need them the most. Such friends better not exist. you should completely block them out of your life if you want to become independent and strong. Additionally, you will also be happier.
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I know you are trying to lose weight, or maybe trying to pick up a new hobby, but as long as you have negative things like the ones I have mentioned above, you won’t be happy. As a result, you won’t be able to give time to yourself and not do anything as per your plan.