You are friends with your crush, you like her and maybe she likes you too. But, every time she comes in front of you, you become speechless. Your heart races and tries to compete against the beats of drum. And oh, your brain goes to sleep too.
Relate much? I know you do.
You have acted like a dumb guy, but that’s okay. It won’t happen again. I will teach you how to get into a more indulging conversation with your crush when your brain doesn’t want to help you.
Before I start with the lesson, there is a requirement that you need to fulfill tough, your crush should know you. You shouldn’t be a stranger to her. Otherwise, it’ll be you (the stalker) and police ki lathi. Now, without wasting any moment let’s get to the point.
Part 1 – What to say Instead what you are already saying
Whenever you are talking to someone, your words play an important role. And as a matter of fact, almost 90% of boys and girls don’t know what they are talking in front of their crushes. Don’t worry it’s not your fault, your crush is just so pretty that anyone can just get lost in her radiant beauty.
So, don’t think that you are doing anything wrong. However, you can do one thing to make this situation a little more favorable for you. You can pay a little attention to what you are saying. Here are some tips that will teach you the way of talking.
Part 2 – Secret to take your conversation to a deeper level
If you want to get close to your crush and want to become more than just her friend, you have to take your conversations to a more deeper level. This is not hard if you know the secret. Use these lines to understand what you need to ask and make your chat sessions with your crush more indulging.
I’m not a big talker, but I like listening.
Everyone knows girls like to talk, a lot. So why not let her know you don’t have any problem listing to her all day and all night.
So, what’s your story?
Everyone has got a story, after telling her that you love to hear her, ask this simple question to know new things about her.
What are you passionate about?
People love to talk about the things that they are passionate about. Also, this will be a failsafe in case your crush said ‘I don’t have any story, I have a pretty ordinary life.’
Believe me, none of us lives a pretty ordinary life, everyone is going through a new adventure every day.
Ok, that feels awkward.
In case none of you is making a move and everything become soundless. Use this sentence as an icebreaker and keep the conversation going.
Part 3 – Things to keep in mind
Just saying that you like listening to people won’t make a difference if you are not attentive about what she is saying. Yes, I know girls only talk about things that you don’t care about but you have to keep your eyes and ears open to make sure you are not missing any opportunity.
>Ask how, instead of repeating why.
>Let her know about you as well.
>Never answer a question with one word.
>Okay, hmmm, acha, haan ji, these all should not be in your dictionary if you want your crush to be your girlfriend.
I know how it feels when she is standing right there, in front of you but as always your brain decides to ditch you and you just don’t know how to talk to her. But I hope you won’t get the same feeling now and your crush will become your girlfriend soon. Just remember my tips next time you decide to approach your crush.